Saying no to constant talkers: please no profile neurosis!


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Text comes from: Die richtigen Worte finden: Ein Radiomoderator erklärt, wie Sie mit jedem jederzeit gute Gespräche führen können (2016) from Thorsten Otto, published by Münchener Verlagsgruppe (MVG), Reprints by friendly permission of the publisher.
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Powerful and influential men are often inclined to profile neurosis. These people love to talk about themselves and their successes and are reluctant to stop.

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Thorsten Otto thorsten-ottoThorsten Otto is TV and Radiomoderator among other things with the Bavarian radio.

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How to silence profile neurotic

If you are talking to a specimen of this species, you have two options. First, you pray that the monologizing Alphamännchen will automatically lose her desire and move on, which can, however, last.

Secondly - and that is my recommendation: you make sure that he loses the desire to get you covered. That's not so difficult, you just have to irritate the man. Men of his stroke are used to being listened to, not interrupted, and certainly not contradicted.

Profile Neurosis - interrupt and irritate your counterpart

So you do just that, interrupt him, irritate him with naughty questions, take him out of the Concept ABC School Joke Oud.

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When I was awarded the German Radiopreis in Hamburg two years ago, I came to the party after the award ceremony with one of the most influential German television managers.

When talks suddenly tip over thanks to profile neurosis

What started amusing at first began to develop into the alcohol-impregnated monologue of a frustrated media-maker, who apparently thought he could puke with me, so quickly passed over to scold at every thing, talked himself out loudly, finally offended me just before collapse.

I, on the other hand, just wanted to celebrate and not witness a heart attack, and when, after some time, I became too stupid, I simply asked the man how long since he was an alcoholic.

Bye Profile Neurotics - Dare!

His reaction is still in my mind today: The powerful man went pale for a moment, his lips quivered, he struggled for composure, abruptly turned away and the conversation or what he thought was over.

Only a few years ago I would never have dared to react in this way. And now I can!

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You're not born a talker, you learn it

But I already mentioned that I was not born to the Talker, and if I've learned to put the finishing touch to a conversation this way, then you can do it, wishing you - opportunity to practice it or never come into such an unpleasant situation.

It is usually even more difficult to end a conversation if you have a private or business conversation in private, in which it is not possible to simply "get away" or "clap".

If business partners feel the same way

Everyone knows this unpleasant feeling that the other one might be offended if you say goodbye now. But I can assure you, in most cases, your counterpart just feels the same and will only be grateful if you end the conversation quickly.

By the way, what good does it do to the other if you are not completely in the game and just wait for the next best moment to leave. Only a few people are not able to notice these subtleties.

Better to end with terror ...

Before the conversation becomes a torment, remember the righteousness: Better an end with horror than a horror without end!

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I therefore recommend that you be as honest as possible and that you politely but firmly declare to the other that you have to go to the next, equally important appointment and also be there on time.

A talk with Rolf Eden

Also, in my early years as a talker, I had a lot of trouble completing conversations with special guests because I thought it was rude not to let the other talk out until he really did not remember anything.

I remember with horror a “Mensch, Otto!” Broadcast with Rolf Eden, the old master of the Playboys, who still came up with a slippery anecdote and, when the hour was drawing to a close, only really got going and hardly closed stop was.

Better not a good listener

I was young and inexperienced and listened to him, when we were no longer on the air and my ears were already rustling.

When the bunny master said goodbye after what felt like two hours: “You are really an excellent listener”, I knew immediately that I didn't want this compliment at all and that I would have to do some things differently in the future.

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