Harmony at any cost?
Conflict situations should, if they can not be completely avoided, ideally run in such a way that both sides feel comfortable with the result. What consequences this educational culture brings, we see every day in the workplace: salary negotiation with the Chef? Maybe next week. Discuss the disagreement with the colleague? Tomorrow…
Harmony at any price? At first glance, this may be a worthwhile goal. But in truth, this goal does not help us. Rather, it prevents us from advocating for fundamental change and thus developing ourselves further.
Standstill instead of development
Instead, we move away from our own aspirations and goals and close compromises, which usually have little to do with what we really want to do.
Stagnation and stagnation are the consequences - both privately and professionally. We may live with the result, but we are not happy. The result: dissatisfaction, if not aggression. Frustration builds up - often at the expense of health.
Extend until the doctor comes
Many decision-makers, executives and employees are confronted with this issue and are surprised when the situation at the workplace shows health consequences and makes their own impotence sick.
Conflict, lack of aggression and dissatisfaction lead to physical symptoms.
Passive mode instead of active changes
Although a burnout is not recognized internationally as an illness, but as a problem of coping with life, its symptoms are very similar to those of widespread mental disorders and disorders, especially depressive disorders.
And their number in turn has risen massively in recent years. In Germany, there are eight million people affected. A part of the problem: instead of ripping the oars, finding the causes to the bottom and a bit rigorously change, many sufferers fall into the passive mode.
The way out of the burnout: No say!
Passive mode? That means nothing else than arranging ourselves with a situation. Through pleasures and repressions, also called procrastination, we fall into a regular paralysis. From this, however, we must venture the liberation blow if we want to be successful both professionally and privately.
The liberation blow succeeds only by decidedly say no!
Boundaries lead to success
Who says no to sit out, to lazy compromises and to the cuddle course, who draws his own limits and makes himself independent of the will and the consent of others.
It can not be instrumentalized or clamped for other purposes. It assures itself the diversity of action and the vision to be able to act independently. This ultimately results in professional success, personal happiness and a good future perspective for the society in which one would like to live.
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