Mindset Shift: Break the power of self-fulfilling prophecy


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Do you know the principle of self-fulfilling prophecy? So something happens because you are convinced that it will happen. Because our perception determines the result. Mindset Shift: The power of self-fulfilling prophecy break self-efficacy success003


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The self-fulfilling prophecy

Maybe you know that from yourself or from other people, that they / we often wear exactly what we / we are convinced of:

Then the woman who is convinced that no man will ever be serious with her, only gets to know those men who treat her really badly and do not mean it seriously. A possible belief could be: "I am not lovable."

I am not valuable? Nonsense!

Such negative beliefs are very often generalizations that carve something rock-solid into stone that doesn't always have to be true. This often makes life difficult for us, because we are closed off from the possibility of having other, perhaps much more positive experiences.

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For example, an employee who believes that she must be paid a salary increase due to her performance and diligence. Unfortunately, she is waiting for her to offer her this increase by herself, so that her performance is seen and thus honored.

They send this message

Since she carries the belief “I am not valuable”, she does not come up with the idea of ​​proposing or demanding a raise.

However, her boss gets the message that she is satisfied with her payment and therefore there is no need for him to act. The logical consequence of this is that she will not get a raise and her belief "I am not valuable" will be confirmed.

Please check your faith

The problem of the faith listed here is due to the limiting belief that prevents the clerk from meeting her wishes and goals. It shows how people often act according to the old beliefs that arose in their childhood and adolescence.

Unfortunately, these beliefs are no longer consciously checked in adulthood, but remain anchored in the subconscious of the people and thus determine their actions, even if these beliefs are no longer true.

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What we think must be true

When we believe something, we behave as if what we think is true. This behavior leads to corresponding reactions in our fellow human beings.

We then see their reactions through the spectacles of our doctrine of faith, and above all perceive this as meaningful, which again confirms the doctrine of faith. Our thought pattern acts as a filter of our perception, which confirms events in the sense of what we believe.

Hand on heart, how often do you think: “I can never do it anyway”? Unfortunately, this belief ensures that this is exactly what happens. Result: They don't make it either, but get stuck in the morass of their negative beliefs.

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Hand on heart, how often do you think: “I can never do it anyway”? Unfortunately, this belief ensures that this is exactly what happens. Result: They don't make it either, but get stuck in the morass of their negative beliefs.

There is an obvious reason for this: Followers of the belief "I can never do it anyway" will achieve their goals with little inner strength and self-confidence. They will also see minor obstacles or setbacks as confirmation of their belief. Eventually they will give up entirely, which in turn confirms their thinking pattern.

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6 Typical beliefs

Restraining beliefs prevent us from reaching our desires and goals. Such as:

  1. I am only loved when I bring performance.
  2. I never find a partner that suits me.
  3. Life is hard.
  4. All beginnings are difficult.
  5. I can not do it.
  6. I am not worth it.

How do beliefs arise?

But how do such beliefs actually arise? Most of the convictions in our childhood when we take the messages from important reference persons. The most important roles are played by the parents, but also grandparents, teachers, siblings or other people who are important to us such as friends, sports trainers, music teachers, etc.

But even in the adult age beliefs can be formed. They arise from the experiences of life and often lead us to experience certain situations again and again.

The experience makes it

For example, the experience "I am only loved if I help others" or "If I do exactly what my partner says, she loves me." Another reason for the formation of beliefs is a unique experience with a strong emotional expression.

An example of this would be that a family member dies in a car accident. As a result, the belief that "All cars are dangerous, I will never drive a car" is formed.

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The danger of thinking loops

Finally, beliefs arise through a permanent repetition of one and the same thought.

For example: "I can't do it."

There is an obvious reason for this: Followers of the belief "I can never do it anyway" will achieve their goals with little inner strength and self-confidence.

Even minor obstacles or setbacks will see them as confirmation of their beliefs. Eventually, they will give up altogether, which in turn confirms their thought pattern.

6 Typical beliefs

Restraining beliefs prevent us from reaching our desires and goals. Such as:

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  1. I am only loved when I bring performance.
  2. I never find a partner that suits me.
  3. Life is hard.
  4. All beginnings are difficult.
  5. I can not do it.
  6. I am not worth it.

How do beliefs arise?

But how do such beliefs actually arise? Most of the convictions in our childhood when we take the messages from important reference persons. The most important roles are played by the parents, but also grandparents, teachers, siblings or other people who are important to us such as friends, sports trainers, music teachers, etc.

But even in the adult age beliefs can be formed. They arise from the experiences of life and often lead us to experience certain situations again and again.

The experience makes it

For example, the experience "I am only loved if I help others" or "If I do exactly what my partner says, she loves me." Another reason for the formation of beliefs is a unique experience with a strong emotional expression.

An example of this would be that a family member dies in a car accident. As a result, the belief that "All cars are dangerous, I will never drive a car" is formed.

The danger of thinking loops

Finally, beliefs arise through a permanent repetition of one and the same thought.

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For example: "I can't do it."


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