Methods for more repartee: Rhetoric is like learning to swim


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Recklessness is not a question of intelligence or talent, but the ability to quickly retrieve certain action and reaction patterns. You can find out how it works here.

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Peter Kensok peter_kensokPeter Kensok is Peter Kensok is communication trainer, coach and psychotherapist. 

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Petra Schächtele-Philipp schaechtlePetra Schächtele-Philipp is a trainer and rhetorician.

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Swiftness is like learning to swim

While many advisors have offered you first aid measures for emergencies, you will learn real quick wit here. It is like learning to swim: your reliable impact does not simply “happen” overnight.

At the very beginning, it requires patience and time to practice. In order to do this, we present a toolbox with ten tried-and-tested patterns, which will give you more eloquence and above all persuasive power:

Game with the language introversion

9 repartee methods that almost always work Especially suitable for people with character
1 Be silent, introvert
2 short comment introvert
3 Standards extrovert
4 Overflow, mist extrovert
5 ask introvert
6 The other side extrovert
7 Agree introvert
8 meta-level introvert
9 Clear limits extrovert

Introvert vs. extroverts

In this overview, you will find ten methods of comprehension, which almost always work. The second column of the table we have after suggestions from experts like Best of HR – Berufebilder.de®-author Chris Wolf eingerichtet.

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In her book “Convincingly quiet!” she breaks a lance for quiet people who often underestimate their strengths and who, in our experience, are more likely to take quick-witted situations instead of handing them out at eye level.

People are different

With this second column, we take into account that people are different - and that can be. So if you are more of a quiet character, focus on all methods marked with 'introverted', but if you have a more relaxed tongue and are more likely to be extroverted, then you may agree with the methods marked with 'extrovert' ,

No matter what type you belong to, there is something for everyone: they will defend themselves against the sounds as well as the conversation partners who can quietly start their verbal assault.

Practice creates masters

You notice already in this classification, that it is not necessary to control all ten methods immediately and at any time! Recklessness needs practice and some techniques are better than others. So first, stay with the method for better repartee that suits you the most. Then expand your repertoire and combine the offers.

Another question we are often asked is whether all ten quick wit patterns work and can be used in any situation. Because only by your reaction does the attacker notice whether he has hit. No reaction means: No hit! Sometimes, not reacting is the best option. You save time, can overcome your own moment of shock and continue to work sovereign.

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What does the attack trigger?

Feel the inner feelings that trigger an attack on you. Perhaps you notice that you have already physically reacted to the outside. They have altered your posture, legs crossed one another, leaning back, looking ashamed, and the like.

Such point victories for your opponent are not a broken leg. At least now, however, look at the other intelligent and then turn away bored the look. Do not distort the eyebrows or the corners of your mouth!

Stabilize the ego

In the case of attacks or reprisals, the first step is always to stabilize one's self-esteem. Only in the second step can you respond to the content and reproaches - if you want that at all! You do not have to host uninvited guests either. Often the conscious restraint brings more advantages. She is always better than talking too much, too fast or thoughtless.

In a lecture on the subject of readiness, a listener asked if you always had to say something. No, you do not have to! But if you say nothing, you should at least keep silent. Federal Chancellor Angela Merkel is also doing this.

Elegant quickness

Often the pause as a strategy of an elegant quickness is sufficient. Just as a flirtation does not have to follow a relationship at the same time. If you have not understood something properly, silence and the preservation of inner peace is the best choice anyway.

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This pattern defuses a situation already massively. Usually, however, it is the introduction for one of the other methods. Use this time to prepare your own repetitive response. This is especially appropriate in the case of an outbreak of anger or lump-sum reproaches.

As a rule, we have the need for a pronounced answer. However, it should not be an unreflected reflex, and even after a break it is even more confident. Your silence calls on your opponent to become more precise and provide more information.

Fight gently

This method is extremely gentle and therefore well suited for disputes with business partners, which you do not want to bother. If you practice the method of "silence, overthrow" in your daily encounters, then master it even in difficult situations.

When you are listening, look pleasantly at your opponent, keep your eyes short, and then turn away bored. Aborting the eye contact is very important. If this does not happen, he is an invitation to continue. But you do not want that.

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  1. Claudia

    The right questions in the right places show how hard a person is. Not only your own speech is important, also how to respond to others is significant. Rhetoric is a convincing testimony. LG

    • Simone Janson

      Thank you for your useful reference. I also ask questions for the best rhetorical means.

  2. Norbert Jansen

    Questions is the best method, the royal route. It is an excellent weapon not only for introverted but also extroverted people.

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      Thanks for the nice comment!

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