Burn-outs as self-sacrificing heroes
Which doctor is already at risk of sending a patient back home? Burn-out is even chic, because burn-outer are not considered failures as pitiful Depressive, but as self-sacrificing heroes.
It is an ideal, socially recognized exit for anyone who can not or will not. Here, self-proclaimed performers and performance refusals meet.
To this end, physicians constantly invent new diseases and the pharmaceutical industry provides the appropriate pills. Both industries make shiny deals and still everyone ill. All participants are winners, only those who are not involved lose - they may pay.
Are we all ill? Do not let the fogbane burn-out drive you crazy. Do not be so superficial about the subject as many profiteers and alleged sufferers.
Are we all sick?
Of course, there are people who are really sick because they are, for example, depressed or have a phobia. To help you. But can it be that in so few years so many Germans are suddenly mentally ill? Hardly likely.
We should also have riders who want to retire with burn-out or give up the responsibility for their own doing and leaving. What we do not have is a contagious disease. We are not all sick!
Be realistic with yourself
The most important thing is to know yourself and to judge correctly. Think about yourself. This assumes knowing yourself. To answer elementary questions: Who am I, what can I do, what do I want, how can I achieve this? Which strengths, weaknesses, professional skills, social skills, character traits, drivers do I have?
Who builds, should be able to organize. Anyone who sells should be positive for people. Who in the Team works, should be a team player. Anyone who sees himself as persistent, should be able to listen to a CD. Those who misjudge themselves will have problems.
The mantra of "anything goes"
The principle applies: you are no different! Not only children, many adults also want to be like the "on the cover of the magazins". Advertising, casting shows and grandparents' money suggest "anything goes"! For this we thrown one or the other overboard and hid the circumstances of our own lives. Appearance blinds being. But dream worlds make us neither a George Clooney nor a Steve Jobs.
Accept yourself the way you are. To work on oneself, to develop oneself, we should all do that. Only change is constant, life knows no "finished", it is only stopped by death. To quarrel, to bend, that does not help us. The key to solutions that we can not provide ourselves often lies with others who help and supplement us with their skills.
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