Envy: The Unimagined Calculus of Humans
There are, for example, differences between a small daily routine such as the new chic top of colleague A and the new car of colleague B, but also far more dangerous forms which are often characterized by the dynamization of such an everyday life.
When the envious admiration of the beautiful top slowly grows into the envy of the figure, the performance, and other areas, it does not take long for the actually positive element of envy of admiration to add a negative moment of envy.
The distorted image in secret
This is the beginning of the speeches, the first remarks and the environment contributes or dampens the opinion. In any case, however, a development takes place which, without the active involvement of the persons affected and above all in secret, can lead to a distorted image.
At the same time, however, this means that followers will find a speech tube. It is precisely the passive endurance which is a danger to those affected: it offers an extension of the working space by doing nothing - even if the silvers do not agree with the opinion of the opposite, they give the envious person a stage.
The relationship braid
Accordingly, the following network of relationships arises:
Of course, this is only a model and the actual power ratio may also look different. In essence, however, one thing is clear: envy is excluded.
In this respect, encouragement can only come from rows of sufferers, as they have the information at all to warn the envied. Of course, the envied also realizes that something is wrong. Sometimes, however, you simply perceive this feeling as a temporary phenomenon and do not measure these things to any real extent.
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