Challenging First Aid: Turn off the Answer Reflex
But why do we always have to react to attacks? Because people open questions usually barely endure. But we can override this response reflex. Read more
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Recklessness First Aid: Do not react to attacks consciously
If ignoring does not help, you should be aware of what exactly bothers you about the situation - and do something about it. Read more
Recklessness First Aid: Lever out the red button
Accuracy does not just have to do with finding a suitable answer. It is perhaps even more important to perceive and understand one's own thinking and feeling. Read more
Recklessness First Aid: The mental shield
A very good mental technique consists of not only making oneself comfortable in difficult situations in the future and not letting oneself be lured out of the reserve, but of getting a visual idea of one's own protective screen. Read more
Quickness First Aid: Anger is like swallowing poison
We want to be ready to be ready when the air suddenly leaves us with indignation or shock and we feel helpless. One of the first (self-) help measures is that we get back to our breathing and set up a protection zone - literally or in a transcendental sense. Read more
Methods for more quick-wittedness: setting clear limits
There is only one way to deal with imprudence or insults: Set limits, immediately! An offense is a violation of personal honor. - Who, however, establishes where an insolence ceases and an offense begins? Read more
Methods for more repartee: Over the clouds
Wise people ignore insults, for those who are annoyed about it, punish themselves for the mistakes of others. How does that succeed? Consider the situation from the outside. Read more
Methods for more repartee: Just agree!
Pressure generates counterpressure, even during attacks. Usual reflexes are: "It's not true!" Or "I will not let that happen!". Instead, just vote, because it will take the wind out of your sails. Read more
Methods for more quick-wit: fun with language games
The ambiguities in our language are an inspiration for the elegant flawlessness. Whoever is able to picture a statement is clearly an advantage. Read more
Methods for more repartee: As in the Space Zoo
> The other side <and the following methods> Play with the language <and> Agree <each have two directions. They meet the others, but we also do ourselves very well. They strengthen their own ego and make fun. Sometimes, however, too much! Read more
Methods for more repartee: questions and counter questions
The question as a rhetorical form has been called the "queen of rhetoric" since the philosophers of classical antiquity. True masters were not the ones who could answer but those who asked grandly and made an answer almost impossible. Read more
Methods for more repartee: Stay nebulous!
You get an unfair question asked? Who actually forces you to respond? Who exactly expects you to actually fall into the trap that your opponent has just asked you? Read more
Methods for more repartee: standard answers as a success mantra
The method> Standards <is quite simple. Instead of answering questions and verbal attacks individually, use a personal mix of memorized answers. Read more
Methods for more repartee: short commentary like Mr. Spock
A short commentary can be used wonderfully as a bridging or show the conversation partner that his statement was inappropriate. Take an example of Commander Spock from Star Trek Enterprise. Read more
Methods for more repartee: elegantly parry
Only on your reaction does the attacker notice if he has hit. No reaction found. Not to react is sometimes therefore the best variant. You win time, you can overcome your own fright hour and continue to be more confident. Read more
Methods for more repartee: Rhetoric is like learning to swim
Recklessness is not a question of intelligence or talent, but the ability to quickly retrieve certain action and reaction patterns. You can find out how it works here. Read more
