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Many executives confused sovereignty with dominant, authoritarian demeanor. The effect depends much more on the inner development. What is needed for this?

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Uncertain or sovereign? The power of the right effect

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At sovereignty and insecurity applies: People who seem insecure often make anything but an unpleasant impression. Especially with people who seem insecure themselves. In addition, unsafe people assume supposedly little danger.

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The situation is different for people who themselves are very dominant: Those who appear very confident, radiates a certain dominance, authority and power, which can also scare others.

Authority force personality

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Leaders, however, need exactly this authoritarian effect. The more it is broadcast by the personality, the less it has to insist on the authority it holds through expertise or position (office).

Authority that comes out of the personality is automatically perceived through non-verbal and verbal signals. Thus, a sovereign behavior is the result of a leadership - the power it takes to lead - a leadership personality that leads through personal authority and sovereign behavior.

The power of body language

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Some people wobble from one leg to another as he speaks, another grasps his nose, and another one lifts the tip of the shoe as opposed to his.

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Fatal also the turning away of the gaze in the moment, where important things are said or - with presentations - the permanent avoidance of the eye contact by a view to the projection surface on the wall.

Telltale signals

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Also linguistically uncertainties are to be observed through hectic or too soft speaking, unconscious filler words, possibility formulations ("I would say, one could perhaps ...") or negative statements about oneself.

These many small signals in behavior and language play an immense role in the effect. But who can do it when it comes to thinking about it? Because most of the time is happening completely unconsciously.

Practice, practice, practice!

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So no change will work! On the one hand, all these habits are based on personality. Sustainable change thus begins with the beliefs, inner convictions and patterns. Blockages must give way to self-assurance.

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On the other hand, it has mainly to do with exercise. Habits can be replaced by better habits with exercise, new patterns must arise. That this does not work in the live situation is obvious. So it takes practice before the mirror, with the video camera and in the seminar.

Development to authenticity

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The good news is that by changing and adapting new patterns of behavior and the resulting positive feedback of the environment also the self-confidence and thus the personality grows. It's worth it twice.

And the authenticity? Because altered behaviors, you might fear, might affect others artificially, surprisingly, and strangely. This unauthentic effect may actually arise when we make body language aware.

Consistently change his behavior

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Think of a routine task such as brushing your teeth, which they do largely unconsciously and automatically. Change now details, for example, clean with the other hand than before, this is only bumpy. In addition, you want to fall back in her familiar pattern.

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If you consistently execute the new style, however, this will soon be your new pattern and they will soon forget the old one. Then the new pattern suddenly appears to be experienced and authentic. Changing behavior is rarely possible without losing authenticity in the meantime. But in the end there is a new authenticity.

The way to the top: without change is not possible!

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Behavior then acts authentically when it looks natural. New behavior is authentic if it is executed often enough. However, anyone who tries to stay as always, in order not to lose the authenticity, will change.

On the way up it will not go without changes. New tasks have to be accomplished as confidently as the old ones. Authenticity through standstill would be fatal ..

Why jewels shine and pebbles are gray

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The goal of a leader who is to be accepted with respect and who receives recognition and authority through her personality is sovereignty in any situation that is professional and authentic. For this I have developed the term "professional authenticity".

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This means: An appearance that aims at the right image and at the same time means a completely authentic effect.

Development process: From the inconspicuous pebble to the jewel

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This is also illustrated by a simple comparison: Jewels shine and pebbles are gray. In other words, an authentically crafted jewel attracts attention and attracts people. A pebble, however, remains gray and unimpressive.

Becoming a jewel is the result of a conscious development process. As a coach, I have accompanied many people. It is a process that creates a confident, charismatic and convincing person who achieves his goals with ease and deliberately and purposefully creates his own image. A leader.

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