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Asking the right questions, quick-witted answers: rhetoric & communication in the space zoo
A good question is always more elegant than a bad answer, even in reparteeism. Questions appear confident and constructive. And they are a very elegant stylistic device. Questions as an elegant form of rhetoric The question as a rhetorical form has been referred to as the ›queen of rhetoric‹ since the philosophers of classical antiquity. True masters weren't the ones who [...] Read more
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Quick-wittedness First aid instead of a red button: anger is like swallowing poison
We always want to be quick-witted when we suddenly run out of breath with outrage or shock and we feel defenseless. What to do? Please do not press the red button! Our visual orientation Most people are very visually oriented. The feedback from the participants in our seminars and coaching sessions confirm that the pictorial [...] Read more
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Quick-wittedness as a mental protective screen: switch off the response reflex
There are several techniques for dealing with attacks. If ignoring doesn't help anymore, you should be aware of what exactly is bothering you about the situation - and do something about it. From Positive Thinking to Affirmation Speak well to yourself. If no one is listening, also out loud: “I'm calm. One by one. As […] Read more
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Methods for more quick-wittedness: setting clear limits
In the case of insolence or insults, there is only one option: set limits, and do it immediately! An insult is a violation of personal honor. - But who decides where an insolence ends and an insult begins? By Shakespeare and Co "Beware of arguments, but it has to be, lead him so that your opponent [...] Read more
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Agree as a means of quick wit: fun with language games
The ambiguities in our language are an inspiration for the elegant repartee. Anyone who can visualize a statement has a clear advantage. Roadworks and similar ambiguities The term ›roadworks‹ in the traffic news leads to images with hiking boots and backpacks. From there, further associations are possible. The term ›flying pineapple‹ also solves the [...] Read more
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Communicate instantly like Mr. Spock: The main thing is nebulous!
Are you being asked an unfair question? Who actually forces you to answer that? Who exactly expects you to actually step into the trap that the other person has just set for you? Answer questions appropriately? In fact, you are free to ignore a question or an expectation. Quiet people in particular prefer the method ›pass over, fog up‹ [...] Read more
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Methods for more repartee: Rhetoric is like learning to swim
Quick-wittedness is not a question of intelligence or talent, but the ability to quickly call up certain patterns of action and reaction. You can find out how to do this here. Quick-wittedness is like learning to swim While many advisers have offered you first aid measures in an emergency, this is where you get to know real quick-wittedness. It's like learning to swim: Your reliable hitting ability "happens" [...] Read more
Here writes: Peter Kensok
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Peter Kensok is Peter Kensok is a communication trainer, coach and psychotherapist. Kensok studied ethnology, volunteered at a daily newspaper and, after a few years as a freelance journalist, trained PR consultants, copywriters and editors. He is a journalist, trainer, consultant and coach. NLP-Lehrtrainer DVNLP eV, Master-Practitioner of the Society of Neurolinguistic Programming (USA) and since 2000 alternative practitioner for psychotherapy with his own practice according to the Heilpraktikergesetz as well as teaching coach and teaching trainer. More information at www.coaching-kensok.de
